Do you believe it is the job of the women to cook Thanksgiving dinner and clean the dishes afterwards?

That is how it is in my family. The women bring dishes and then get together and clean up in the kitchen. I think they like it that way because they get to cook a dish and have people compliment them and then they get to have ladies bonding time cleaning the dishes.
Do you believe it is the job of the women to cook Thanksgiving dinner and clean the dishes afterwards?
No, It's a family holiday!! Cooking, cleaning, eating should be shared by all!!!
Reply:My Dad always cooked any big dinner in my house as I grew up, or even after I married and came back for a visit. I'd help with salads, peeling potatoes, setting the table. My sister mashed the potatoes, and kept her little children occupied.


My sister and I always did the dishes.





Now we all pitch in, wives, husbands, grown kids.


It is a big family ordeal. I think it just depends on a particular family.
Reply:ha. that's how it is in my family as well. which makes thanksgiving kind of awkward. we all used to go to this big house and my whole extended family would be there and the dads and their sons would watch football and the moms would cook in the kitchen and the daughters would help. well, nobody is dragging me away from a football game to help them push stuffing up a turkey's butt, thank you very much. so for a long time, it would be the women trying to get me to help and the men telling me how i didn't know anything about football. i always hated thanksgiving. but i think the rest of my family liked it. the men liked their chance to be all "manly" and grunt about football, and i think the women truly did enjoy the chance to talk without the men being around. but i hated the whole thing. after years of whining, my family now goes to hawaii for thanksgiving and lets the rest of my extended family have their stupid gender-seperated holiday.
Reply:HERE AT MY HOUSE WE ALL COOK I PEEL THE POTATOS AND MY HUSBAND MASHES THEM I BOIL THE EGGS AND MY HUSBAND PILES THEM THEN I MAKE THE DEVIL EGGS MY SON SHOT THE TURKEY WITH SEASONS AND COOKS IT AND MY HUBBY SLICES IT ECT ECT HOW EVER WHEN IT COME TIME TO DO THE DISHES THE MEN FIND THEM SELFS IN FRONT OF THE FOOTBALL GAME AND THATS O K THEY WOULD DO THE DISHES TO PLEASE ME ANY WAY!
Reply:No. Iron my shirt.
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